ok so i took another look at the wiring today and took some pix.
im getting the tvsv/tcp signal for my turbo off of pin 2 on the largest plug which is C. This was found via the EWD for the st205 and backed up via other pitures on line
the line can be seen here and its the blue with red line and im tapping/teeing in about and inch after the plug

i have my LED's hooked up like this (see pic) with the + from the red LED and the - from the green LED soldered together with the white wire which is tapped into the blue w/red line wire off the ecu plug in the first pic. The - and + from the red and green led, respectivly, are going to the ground and a 12v line which use to feed the CIG lighter.

Thinking that radioshack may have messed up on the wiring of the resistor or something i tested it out. BOTH led's when hooked up to a ground an 12v line WILL only work with the red wire to power and the black wire to ground.
While taking everything apart to rewire i noticed that with the wires hooked up like they are in the above picture and the key turned to ACC both lights lit up. The red one only being half as intence as the green one. BUUUUTTT when i took off the signal line both light up equally as bright. I have a piture below to explain what this looked like

So whats wrong here?????? why is it when the LED's are hooked up @$$ backwards and powered they work?????? they dont work like batteries do they???
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So after being stumped as to why both LED's light up when wired up backwards like that i thought it might be smart just to wire ONE color LED to the signal line. I chose the GREEN led. the TCP singal line wired to the green led's black wire and the red wire to the 12v powero line for the cig lighter.......
i took it for a test drive and guess what?????
the DAMN green LED still blinks on and off just as it had before.
THIS MEANS that it must be my ECU's TCP signal wire right?????? but why would the TCP line osilate polarities between neg. and pos.