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I wouldnt be entirely sure about her stance on abortion, unless she religious and depending on what age she had the child. Also she may have been in love with a guy, then he ran.
But if shes any kind of decent mother the kid will no doubt no matter what come before you.
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Its true, they do like the assertive take charge attitude.
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As for the alcohol can't that be considered rape in some places?
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That is if you are just trying to get laid, but if shes leaves her group or what not, why not make a move just for practice, or if you enjoy a challenge.
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Theres something about being unavailable that is intriguing to the female mind. Its a good thing if you arent in a relationship with them yet, but being unavailable in a relationship not so good.
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This may weed out some of the golddiggers however if you are making moneys more often than not it will make you seem like a pompus arrogant prick and depending on how old you are itll seem like you are living off of mommy and daddy money.
You've got money to live your life the way you want to and you are happy with that nuff said.

Theres over 6.5 billion people in the world with a gender to gender ratio close to 101 males to every 100 females.
So its like bloodrain said, go up and talk to girls you never know what might happen unless you try and itll stop the what if questions because you actually did something.

Confidence (feeling and visually portrayed), eye contact, coming off as warm and inviting yet mysterious. Seem to work pretty well, also sometimes not trying or making it seem as you dont want get anything from them such as a date or ass may work better than trying, even if it is what you really want.

All this take is making me wanna sign up for some pysch classes. :\

I've been reading alot about women during my single period, It finally paied off. I think the bottom point is the same as most explained up in the thread. Don't act or be like all the other guys that approached girls!

I recently dated(and eventually became her BF) a girl that most would consider hot. Some stuff I did on dates? I gave her no compliments whatsoever(think about it, most guys will say cute stuff to her on the first date), I didn't pay for the dinner or movies, I tryed to picked on her in funny ways.

After, she told me she loved me because I was different(well that not the only reason hopefully! LOL), and I wasn't the way she thought I was at first. I hope it makes sense to you guys BE DIFFERENT, UNUSUAL, but not wierd!

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ha thats great, sounds like the book is paying off EXCEPT you made one mistake. From that alone I can tell you feel lucky to be with her, when she should be lucky to be with YOU. Keep that in mind, your goin in the right direction, you just need to have the right mind set now.

man, that's some good stuff bloodrain. we need to go chick hunting one day. lol.

i vote for STICKY

good tips blood. i want to go to a mall and try this.

one other thing, the "beautiful eyes" line is hella cliche

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ya, on my 'adventures' I found that to be most effective. And check it out, even if they say "I have contacts on" think about it, its a PERFECT opportunity to start a conversation, shes not shutting you out shes answering into your questions. Oh, I didnt ask her a question? In reality you did, thats why psychology is awsome. And the mall trick is awsome, i've told probably about 6 people about it, they all did it and SWEAR by it now, lol. Anywho as always, feel free to ask questions guys, in the thread of thru a PM

Guys that approach me with a swagger and look over-confident, like there is no way in hell that I will say no, that make me worry they will key my car if I don't give them my number...they don't have a chance in hell...

I've had guys approach me with a nice smile, not an eager I-wanna-screw-you smile, but a genuine "Hey, seeing you just now has made my day just a little bit better," kind of smile. They come up, ask how my day has been, if I go to school here/live here, they compliment me somehow by saying they've seen me around and I seem cool, or that they heard I was into cars, or whatever...they say their name, mention their major or their job, and ask if I'm going out any night soon and if so, where?

I usually tell them when and where I'll be, but I'll regrettably admit that I have a boyfriend so as not to create trouble...

the ones who say something like, "Well, that's not a problem" or "That doesn't bother me," I immediately dislike and get away from...

but the ones who say, "Oh, I'm sorry. I'm sure he's a great guy/He's really lucky...maybe if things don't work out we'll bump into eachother again..."

those guys I always am left thinking about...wondering what they would have been like if I were single, and if anything does go wrong, they're always on the list for people to chat it up with later at the clubs, lol...

There is no list, and no general about these types of situations. Each is unique. I am close to getting my masters in Geriatric Psychology from WVU at this point, and I have dealt with enough of this to know. Don't take advice from people who have not had training.

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haha, I hope you dont mean me. I've been researching and take classes since 9th grade. (4 years in HS and 2 in college) I also research and study human behaviors as a hobby. I find it fun to see how predictable people are. Granted I dont have a masters in psychology, im far from a amateur. ;-) you also dont need "training" to give advice from life experiences. Im not telling them how to live there life or telling them to do anything that will get them hurt or introuble, what I post has no more effect on them than them going out and reading a magazine for dating.

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 29, 2006 - 6:58 PM

oh! someone got OWNED!!!

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Just be careful. When people think you know, they will listen. That's a big responsibility to be right.

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ya i know, thats why whenever I give advice I always tell them to take it with a grain of salt. All I do is share past experiences with them, b/c you and I know history always repeats itself. So, just to make everything clear guys when I give advice, use your best judgement and do what you think you should do. Dont rely on me to think im your savior :-p