I think im depressed. Not to the point to do anything stupid but im just always glum! i feel like Eeyore from Pooh stories! I let so many things decide if im going to be happy - IE Boys! and in my mind im like Dont let that determine how ur going to feel but it seems to overtake me! Ive seen a doc in the past and she perscribed some medicine but my parents were against it since my bro is severly depressed so i guess since my case is mild compared to his that it makes me not a canidate. but i also know that docs do seem to prescribe depression pills at any sign and they pass it out like its candy

I dont know what to do! my feelings are so up and down and maybe it has to do with this stupid only one day of no rain for the past 28 days. And i keep getting sick and maybe this has something to do with it. Wow i probably sound like a nut case! i need to suck this up cuz im getting teary eyed at work!

maybe i guess it would make me feel better to know im not the only one who gets down! Im not looking for sympathy just for some people in my same boat! idk!


Natalie



sidenote - dont get me wrong - its not boys that have me down! its myself in general and money and what not! boys seem to be on top of that list that get me down

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Jan 16, 2006 - 2:34 PM

Cheer up girl! Sounds like you need an inhaler!

This post has been edited by jgreening: Jan 16, 2006 - 2:30 PM

with a celica that looks like that, you should be the happiest person in the world! , cheer up

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aww yeah my car has started to make me happy again..been a while since he did that for me! just cant look at his quarter panel or i get sad again! but yeah hes a good guy - atleast i know one of them in my life!

pop some pills

some blue, yellow and purple pills maybe?? :-P

maaaaybe not


This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jan 16, 2006 - 3:01 PM

yeah but my doc asked if i was down enough to kill myself and i said no but ive thought about it but could never follow thru cuz im just going thru stupid crap right now that a typical girl goes thru and then shes like well let me put u on these pill but one downside is that they may make u feel like you could follow thru on killing urself and im like uhh how is that better than the state im in right now?

lol...thats like giving a anorexic stackers.

i seem to be going through the same thing u are, trouble with the oposite sex always seems to be at the top of the list when it comes to troubles...to me, it seems that nothing ever works out, but whenever i get into these moods i jus think about the things i am happy for like my friend/roomate. No matter what kind of mood im in, i can jus think of his stupid ass self and being laughing again. I think in my case i tend to focus more on the negitves parts about my life, and forget about all the postives, but when i remember them again, i feel fine. So my advice to you is jus find something your really thankfull for and jus think about that whenever **** gets bad

p.s idk if u have ever seen the movie wedding date or something like that..has the red head from will and grace staring in it. But the guy who is a whore basically in the movies makes alot of sense when it comes to relastionships. Might wanna rent that if your trying to figure out relationships woooes

This post has been edited by OrbitalGT95: Jan 16, 2006 - 3:03 PM

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thats your problem, you car is the wrong sex. It needs to be a she. Which almost might be hinting at something else in life? lol j/k

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I take stacker2s.

Nat! Cheer up baby doll. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here. Rain always makes me depressed.

I get into a funk about this time every year too. The winters here can be really depressing. Fortunatly, the days are only getting longer since we've past the solstice. Yesterday was pretty nice all be it a little cold.

Find some positives to focus on and don't let the bad stuff get you down. I know it's easier said than done, it's something I fight with every year. Maybe this week you can make it down here to get the part I have for your car (don't worry about paying for it). I can put it in if you like. That might cheer you up. At least you'll be able to go throught the drive thru again

Scott - thanks thanks thanks that would help if ud install it alot but i wanna pay u but i dont get cash till next week! maybe i could write you a post dated check! let me know

Its your age. Its normal to feel depressed, you have a lot going on in your life. I mean your young, your looking or thinking and making decisions that will effect you for the rest of your life.

I feel like that alot too.. Like I dont wanna go kill myself, its just that im not happy. im just blahh... Everything effects me.. I have a lot going on in my faimly, work, and school.. and not even to mention my social life.

Just try to look at the positive things, Like your young, beautiful, seem to be outgoing and able to have fun, you dont live out of a box on the street and you have a car. You dont know how maney people would kill for that.

Have Fun.. Try not to think about tomorrow, or a week from now, or worry about guys. Do what makes you happy and what you want. That and try to stay busy, I notice Im always happier when im busy, like non-stop doing anything, it keeps your mind from thinking about to much. That and It always helps to just have a close friend or anyone to just sit down and talk to.

Yeah ive tried keeping myself busy with things that better myself such as the gym and reading.

Thanks Everyone!! :-) I know things could be a lot worse and im thankful they arent! :-D

GROUP HUG!

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I'd be happy to install it whenever you like. I said before not to worry about the money. You can mail it to me after you get paid. I trust you.

everyone gets depressed. its a part of life. your problem is that you look to people or things to make you happy, and then once that thrill is gone, you get sad again. you have to learn how to be happy without guys in your life, or shopping.

dont take any pills. doctors should be crucified for trying to treat people for something they know nothing about. those pills have more side effects then you can imagine.

^ i have to agree there.

i'm curious if there's like a Oxygen forum
if so i can imagine it already. . .

This is why I went into psychology and not psychiatry. I believe in the power of the mind and I think people underestimate how powerful it really is.

Hey Nat, Just hang in there, Everythings going to be ok. Not all guys/boys are bad, And everything will be ok. Your car will get fixed and looking good as always , Just keep doing them things that make you happy, and keep your head up don't do anything stupid. You'll be ok. I've had them same thoughts also. And i just held in there and kept my head up. Hope for the best of ya.

Everyone has up's and downs, its just life, blame hormons, society, family, or all of the above.

from what I know about you, you have a decent job, a cool car, and a good social life, you just gata realise what you got going for you even if you cant see it all the time.

side note: at least your not a total restart with the opposite sex like I am, and you do have "boys" in your life, I have a 100% failure rate with girls, so dont feel bad. "better to have and lose then never to have had at all."

and pills are not the anser, I know this weither sux big time but it will pass eventualy despite what the news says.

aww no worries hun, i have felt this way for the past 6 months (since i broke up with my ex and then he got a g/f). i've been royally ****ed up but just never get over it. I just try to go out with friends and i just completely throw myself into work and stuff to keep my mind off things. i'll occassionally just break down sometimes and it freaks me out, but meh.. what can ya do. i never wanna go to the doc to get meds or anything, or a therapist, i just feel like i should be able to deal with it on my own..

ive battled it for a long time though, even before this, its just me i guess.. haha oh well!

It'll all be okay. I keep telling myself that too. Over this past weekend I saw my ex bf- we've been broke up 2 months & I havent seen him since. He left today to go to boot camp. I was up til 3 am talking to him- he was begging me for one more chance- just one more chance is all he wants. He knows he was a jerk in the past & should have his butt kicked, but he'd do anything for me & whatever it takes to get back with me. He said if it took puttin a ring on my finger- he'd do it. He was crying & just beggin me for just one more chance, but I couldnt give it to him- I care about someone else now, who at the moment I cant be with. So now I really feel like crap! He said he knows I'm the one for him & that he's not gonna date anyone else. I told him I want him to be happy & he said he wont be happy til the day I call him & say I want him back. I just trust that God has a plan & I try not to let stuff get to me- a whole lot easier said than done tho

yeah i try to keep myself busy but its hard cuz on weekdays im too tired to really go out cuz id have to take another shower and get ready but then i gotta be home by 10ish so that i am fully rested for work the next day. I however have gone to the gym twice a day for the past 3 days and its made a difference in my mood - im on steroids for the next week though to help with my cough so it gets me really ancy and what not, hopefully it wont make me irritable.



im glad im not the only one - well im not glad other people feel this way but im glad there are some people i can relate to

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wow you must have a bad docter, ti prescribe steroids.

may wana get a 2nd opinion

no steroids are often perscribed for a cough. They dont like to have people taking antibiotics cuz u can develope such an immunity to them! its a low dose and nothing like what body builders take. but im not taking them anymore cuz i got too bad of a headache! id rather have the cough than a headache and a cough

why is it that when you say "fine. F it im not trying for that person anymore" and you stop calling them and you pretty much delete them out of ur life then they call you again and wanna talk! blah!

what i tell u about that shyt haha stopp itt and cheer up